Great style often comes down to the details. While jackets, trousers, shoes, and shirts create the foundation of an outfit, smaller accessories can determine whether the final look feels ordinary or thoughtfully put together.

The goal is not to add as much as possible. Instead, it is about choosing a few elements that give the outfit personality without overwhelming it.

Start With a Simple Base

A clean, simple outfit gives accessories more room to stand out.

Neutral T-shirts, denim, tailored trousers, overshirts, and basic outerwear can all act as a strong foundation. From there, it becomes easier to introduce texture, metal accents, or more distinctive accessories without making the outfit feel too busy.

This is especially useful for everyday styling because the same base pieces can be worn repeatedly while accessories change the overall mood.

Use Accessories to Add Edge

Accessories are one of the easiest ways to introduce a slightly stronger or more individual look.

Rings, bracelets, necklaces, belts, and wallet chains can all add subtle visual interest, particularly when paired with denim, workwear, leather jackets, or relaxed streetwear. The best results usually come from treating these pieces as accents rather than the main focus.

A simple metal detail at the waist, for example, can add character without changing the overall balance of the outfit.

Pay Attention to Metal Finishes

When several accessories are worn together, the finish can influence how cohesive the outfit feels.

Silver-toned metals tend to work well with black, gray, navy, and washed denim, while warmer finishes can complement brown, cream, olive, and earth tones.

The metals do not necessarily need to match perfectly, but repeating similar tones can make the styling feel more deliberate.

Balance Statement Pieces With Simpler Clothing

A strong accessory works best when it has some visual space around it.

If the outfit already includes bold graphics, bright colors, or heavily distressed clothing, adding several statement accessories may create too much competition. On the other hand, a restrained outfit can support one or two stronger details very effectively.

This balance is what keeps accessories looking intentional rather than excessive.

Think About Texture

Texture can make even a simple outfit feel more interesting.

Combining denim with leather, cotton with metal, or knitwear with structured accessories creates contrast without relying on bright colors. Small differences in surface and material can give an outfit depth while keeping the overall palette controlled.

This is one reason accessories are so useful: they introduce a new material without requiring another major clothing layer.

Keep Proportion in Mind

The size and weight of an accessory should make sense with the rest of the outfit.

Heavier pieces often work better with denim, boots, jackets, and other substantial garments, while slimmer accessories can suit cleaner or more minimal styling.

There is no single correct formula, but proportion affects whether an accessory feels naturally integrated or visually disconnected.

Build a Signature Look Over Time

Personal style usually develops gradually.

Rather than constantly replacing clothing to follow new trends, many people build a recognizable look through recurring details. That might include a particular type of jewelry, a favorite belt, distinctive eyewear, or a small group of accessories worn in different combinations.

These repeated elements can make even simple outfits feel personal.

Ultimately, strong styling is less about wearing more and more about choosing details carefully. A few well-selected accessories can introduce personality, texture, and contrast while allowing the rest of the outfit to remain effortless.

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Life, actually…

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INHALE EXHALE INHALE EXHALE AND SO ON

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My brown leather book satchel is fraying at the handle. I lug it along with me on the way to grammar school, this now-remembered morning.

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The brown leather frayed book satchel contains a broken pocket knife still serviceable should saber-toothed beasts approach, a beat-up textbook stamped approved by unseen boards of education, a number two yellow pencil in case of sudden learning, an overripe apple to nibble during recess, one Big Little Book about the Phantom should I have a chance to advance the illustrated adventure…

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What else snuggles within the cracking leather?

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Oh, a black-and-white snapshot of me and my sweet dog Brownie, a child-sized Aspergum tablet, a paper-wrapped tooth that ejected itself yesterday, and a yellow crayon that nobody loves. 

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I am young and innocent and self-contained at this moment in time. I wend my own way across the abandoned military encampment, a once-vital encampment that played its part in the recent war. Post-war grounds are now my playground, my beaten path to school, my nobody’s-land space between home and the rest of the world.

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On the rusty orange ground at my feet, something glitters and beckons. I stop and stoop and peer. It is a severed expansion-band ownerless wristwatch.

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I pick it up. I’ve never owned a real watch–only a frozen-time play watch that tells time twice a day.

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The face of this timepiece is also frozen. But just in case, I wind the stem and feel the satisfying notching that activates the inner workings.

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The watch still works, still tells me the correct Central Standard time, makes me aware of the minute-to-minute seconds that escort me through the day, still hides in my loose-change pants pocket. My first watch!

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I stand a little straighter, gaze smartly at the nearby abandoned red-brick-buildings, and continue my trek to school. I am now assured that now I can consider myself an important member of the tribe of men and women who keep up with time and make things happen.

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My initiation within the tribe will be complete once I own an unbroken expansion band that will allow the broken watch to join society on the wrist of a scrawny kid.

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A scrawny kid who just wants to get through the day in one piece, in order to get back to the Phantom and his righteous quest for truth and justice

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 © 2026 A.D. by Jim Reed

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Life, actually…

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THE SPOILS OF PEACE

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There will always be peace and rumors of peace.

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This is what I keep telling myself.

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Peace does have a habit of breaking out once in a while. Before you know it, somebody somewhere slips up and discovers that there are quiet hiatuses to be enjoyed between wars.

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Just a thought. Maybe this thought arises as a symptom of stress and confusion. There are fifty ways to leave your peace of mind behind, when venturing into the streets each day.

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Wars overlapping wars, conflicts bumping into one another, intolerances busily compounding themselves, grisly thoughts arising from media-driven gossips who creatively puppet-master those who forget to close their eyes or stop up their ears.

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Even the most happily optimistic among us get blind-sided now and then by a plethora of hand-wringing and gnashing…news of the day becomes gloomy doom-saying mantras that are hard to ignore.

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Try to recall the goodwill we experience between the wars. Memories seem elusive after brutal times extend themselves. But memory and artifacts need tending to. Constant reminders do help us scrounge around for hope.

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Not nourishing my good memories is like drinking powdered milk from an anemic cow.

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While despots and self-involved bullies pretend to rule the world, we the people of hope continue to ply our trade. Our job is to fan the embers of good memory, good hope, goodwill, loving gestures. Our task is to embrace the idea that there will always be goodness and mercy. Even if we don’t envision it clearly, we know it is there. It is there because we imagine it. It is safely secured in our hearts and minds.

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Those anti-peacemongers can’t take it away from us because we preserve it out of sight disguised as invisible ideas and dreams

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© 2026 A.D. by Jim Reed

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Life, actually…

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JACK IN THE BOX

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A brief glimpse into my little corner of Paradise…

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In the middle of the shop in the middle of the morning I’m in the middle of a 90%-sided conversation with a caller who wants to know which books I will purchase unseen from her simply by her phone descriptions…when a streetman walks in and hovers before me hoping to deflect my attention from the phone-in book lady.

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All the while, other customers ebb and flow among the stacks.

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Since the phone lady is first in queue, I’m asking the streetman to cruise around and browse until I’m finished—until the phone lady is finished, that is.

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Got to be nice to everybody all at once, in the tradition of good old-fashioned over-the-countering.

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The streetman’s body-shifting tells me he’s not here to buy anything, so after a while, I politely place the phone lady on hold to find out what’s up.

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“I need some meat on the table…I got this jack-in-the-box that’s old.”

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Oh, he wishes to sell me something.

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“Are you wanting to sell it?” I ask. “Yes,” he says.

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I notice that he isn’t carrying anything with him. “Do you have it here?” I ask. “No, but I can go get it,” he replies. “OK,” I say.

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I continue listening to the caller as she names the names of books, most of which I can’t purchase because 1) they are not titles that my regular customers wish to purchase 2) I already have multiple copies on hand 3) they’re in bad shape 4) and so on and et cetera.

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But I keep listening, because about every fifteenth title is indeed something I might consider buying once I examine it. She continues the litany, I continue checking on my other customers to see whether they’re finding what they need.

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The streetman re-enters the store with a shaggy canvas bag, so I motion that I’ll be with him in a mo’. He is sweating from the asphalt heat.

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By now, the phone lady has mentioned perhaps a boxful of books that I would consider purchasing should she bring them in…but she’s not through. I realize what I have suspected all along: despite my imagined super powers I simply cannot properly handle a dozen transactions at once.

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“Could you call back in an hour so we can continue this?” I ask, since I need to deal with the customers and the streetman. She agrees, I hang up and go around the counter to see what’s in the bag. My insatiable curiosity is what drives me and my business.

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 He pulls forth a metal-and-plastic cube from the early 1980’s, and I immediately begin turning the handle to see whether the mechanism works. The tune is unrecognizable, so my next hope is that the pop-up figure will work, allowing me to at least give the streetman something for his trouble and his table meat.

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A clown pops up on cue and looks rather cute, as beat-up music box clowns go, so I press him back into the box to see once more whether it’s a fluke or something an overgrown child might love to fool with once it goes onto a counter at the shop.

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The music doesn’t work this time, and the streetman is getting apprehensive. At this point, I’m ready to pay him something just to be a good Samaritan—uh, good Down-Souther—but he tries once again to make the box work, holding his mouth just right.

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It does work this time, which is enough for me. I offer him five dollars and he is grateful and leaves the shop gracefully, leaving me stuck back here in the best of all possible worlds—at an ancient bookstore where broken toys and busted memories co-exist and, on some days, make a rather nice home for themselves

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© 2026 A.D. by Jim Reed

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Life, actually…

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THE Y’ALL-COME BOOK LOVERS OF THIRD AVENUE NORTH

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“Air conditioning!” Rhondrae enters the bookshop, smiling full speed ahead, and inhales deeply. “Do y’all know how lucky you are to have air conditioning?”

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Rhondrae freezes in place for a moment, experiencing the breeze. Her Goodyear Shoe Hospital is just across the street from Reed Books. It is more than a century old. Her youthfulness keeps it going.

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Rhondrae is one of many visitors today, each of whom arrives with tailor-made light and spasmodic energy. There are two New Yorkers enjoying the Bama vibe. There is a tattooed black-tee-shirted couple on their way to needle and ink sessions next door. There is a wee bit of a four-year-old who is excited about Dr. Seuss books and books about steam shovels.

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The sunshine these browsers gift to the shop produces an ambient glow that is hard to describe. You have to be here.

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Meanwhile, Rhondrae produces a bag of nibbles and sweets to share with us. She’s always feeding us with her energy and her goodies. Another customer bounces in and is ooing and ahhing at the plethora of books and goofy collectibles on display. She has found her bliss.

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I am grinning ear to ear. I am pleasured by the good feelings that pop up each time the door clangs open. Who will be next?

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A young man from DC arrives to roam the aisles and let us know what is happening in Xanadu these days. A family from the Panhandle is chuckling over a joke book, a nearby loft dweller pops in to add Agatha Christie to her hefty collection.

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I suppose this could be called Mr. Reed’s Neighborhood. At least it feels that way at times.

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Civil rights students and Louis L’Amour fans mingle with Nietzsche seekers and Lewis Grizzard lovers. Studiers seek Calvin and Hobbes and E.O. Wilson and King James Bibles and Mad Magazine. You just never know what people will ask for.

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I’m happily grinning again. I guess this is the kind of day I love recalling later on, when I’m home resting up for the next day’s onslaught of random goodwill and well-lit souls

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© 2026 A.D. by Jim Reed

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Life, actually…

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FROM SMUGLY TO SNUGGLY IN ONE LIFETIME

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“It is useless to attempt to reason a man out of a thing he was never reasoned into.”

–Jonathan Swift

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I suppose that this Jonathan Swift quote I just came across is just as true today as it seemed way back when.

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During my extended journey from dolt-age to dotage I have been reasoned and de-reasoned in and out of temporary truths…again and again.

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During my misspent youth I believed in, then dis-believed in, flying saucers and grisly things that go BOO in the night. Can’t say that I am smarter now, it is just that I don’t believe in them anymore. More accurately, they don’t occupy space in my imagination anymore.

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Other things that were seemingly true and real for a jiffy don’t weigh on my mind as they once did. I’ve had failed flings with a dozen isms, a modicum of romances, a taste for all things chocolate, an obsession with trading cards, a belief in this braggart or that braggart. All have arisen, all have become jaded and faded.

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What replaced all these mini obsessions? What if anything occupies my better spirits? Is all seduce-ability gone bye-bye?

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Every time I’m ready to build my wings and flail about in some far-off cause or far-flung fantasy, I tend to blink. Blinking pulls me back to the land of earthlings and face-to-face realities.

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Blinking clears the vision, simplifies the circuitous ramblings of pundits and philosophers and politicians and wise guys. Blinking grounds me, astounds me, with its simplicity.

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Simplicity is so complicated. Once embraced, I can see what’s before me, I can allow focus to resume. I can clap my hands in pleasure. I can re-examine what is real and concrete, what is unique and blatantly important.

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What seems corny in our times of snarky-ness, in our days of cynicism and shaming…what seems corny is that CORNY is the new reality, the forever reality.

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Corny means not only loving the good in people, corny means acting out this love, actually saying kind and comforting things, actually taking time to listen and respond and give back. Actually being a good example for others to emulate. How is that for ultimate corniness?

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Also, corny can replace those emotionally-charged but infinitely useless minutes that can make you doubt hope and abandon good deeds. Corniness can cause you to become useful, make you matter, fill you with hope and possibility.

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If you decide to follow the path of emotional maturity you may see that you are acting out the person you always were. Maybe that person was timid for a while. But boldness in the cause of spreading goodness and mercy is not such a bad thing.

“It ain’t what you don’t know that gets you into trouble. It’s what you know for sure that just ain’t so.”

–Mark Twain

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Join the convoy and see where it takes you. You just may become a spreader of random acts of surprisingly fun times

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© 2026 A.D. by Jim Reed

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Life, actually…

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DOWN-SOUTH NOTES ON HOW TO NOTICE BOOKS AND BOOKIES

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As curious booklookers stream into my bookshop each day, things happen. You know, Things Happen.

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Browsers want to know stuff.

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“Have you read all these books?” That’s like asking a shoestore manager, “Have you worn all these shoes?”

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“Where’s your oldest book? I just want to see your oldest book.” Like going into a convenience store and asking, “Where is the oldest expire-date candy bar section?”

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“I just read history. Got any?” I want to ask, “History of snails, history of street repair, history of grumpy old men?” What is the customer’s idea of “history” books?

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I like helping browsers find something worthy of adoption. But first I must de-layer and decipher exactly what the potential customer is asking for.

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For some, “history” just means books about the Civil War. Down South, this usually means only books about the Down South idea of what the conflict was all about. History is in the heart of the beholder.

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There are two ways to answer the “Have you read all these books?” question. If lightheartedness seems appropriate I’ll reply, “Yep. I’ve read them all.” Depending on whether the asker gets the joke, I’ll add, “Except this book–the one right here. Haven’t finished it yet.”

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Of course the gag is obvious to most, but for some it seems like a reasonable answer. If you haven’t been raised in a reading environment, or if you’ve seldom read anything voluntarily, you just might believe someone could read a few hundred thousand books in a bookstore.

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I don’t judge, I just bemuse and observe.

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As to the matter of examining a centuries-old book, I enjoy getting to know the customer’s motivation better before bringing out an ancient volume.

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If the customer is simply gawking, with no intention of learning or reading beyond sightseeing, I might hesitate, perhaps only complying when there are no other customers awaiting assistance. But it is fun, showing off a 500-year-old book.

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Helping all customers properly is pretty much impossible. It pleasures me to hand someone the exact edition of the precise book being requested. It disappoints me to announce that a book is not available today—just sold my last copy yesterday.

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So in a bookstore, things happen. Books are cherished, adopted, recited aloud, hugged, occasionally chewed on (toddlers run loose sometimes), ordered, read within the shop, placed on hold, even put on layaway as we say in this part of the nation.

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The secret of running a joyful book emporium is to observe and assist, not criticize. The secret of running a bookstore is to see a favorite book through the eyes of an avid collector, not wonder why anyone would waste time reading this particular author. The secret of running a cathedral of books is to swim among the titles and find the secret behind every page. There’s always a secret to be found, even hiding behind the most inconspicuous-looking covers.

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You can dive into a bookstore and hone in or home in on what you want today. Or you can declare today a holiday and just wander the aisles, stop on a dime, close your eyes, reach for an unknown and unknowing author. Then, undercover of night and blanket, flashlight at the ready, surprise yourself by getting to know the words of a stranger…a stranger who spent years dreaming up and constructing the story you now hold open undercover

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© 2026 A.D. by Jim Reed

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Life, actually…

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PLEASE DON’T CORRECT ME, ESPECIALLY WHEN I’M WRONG

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Truth be told, the whole truth and nothing but the whole truth is seldom revealed in polite company.

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I was raised and tutored in the ways of good manners and positive social interchange. My parents extolled the virtues of kindness and the golden rule.

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I cherish these ideals and wish that I could be a well-behaved icon of excellent behavior.

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Of course, hard as I try I often fall short of posturing myself as an exemplary role model.

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This is not false modesty, mind you. I do come through now and then, now and then doing the right thing and helping others survive their plights.

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But I am far far distanced from perfection, perhaps because of membership in the human species. Perhaps because I am a gumbo of good and bad and naughty and nice, stirred not shaken.

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My silent urge to correct and improve those among us who are flawed, just doesn’t work. I’ve learned you can possess great knowledge about the ways things should be. But I’ve also noted that pointing out the Right Way to direction-challenged people has no effect whatsoever on their subsequent actions.

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Indeed, often the best way to assure bad behavior is to tell someone it is better to behave. It’s a challenge to them. I’ve wasted my breath. The equivalent of demanding that plate tectonics must cease immediately.

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Not sure what my point is, but I do know this: humans be human and there is not much each of us can do to stop or slow down the drift.

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What I can do is stubbornly continue to follow my parents’ advice, when and if I can.

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I know that this is the right thing to do. I know that I will succeed. I know that I will fail. I hope that in the long run I will succeed more than fail.

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And I know beyond the shadow of a doubt that I’m not worth much if I don’t try and try again and again to resist the shadows

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© 2026 A.D. by Jim Reed

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Life, actually…

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FRIENDS OF THE TALKING GAS PUMP

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Routine activities help structure my day. Without these routines the clock would advance even more erratically.

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I need my routines. Add just a few pleasant surprises and the brew grows more flavorful. Toss in an unattractive distraction or two and I begin to mumble and grow disoriented.

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It is enough that life spews distractions and shrapnel in my path. It is satisfying that most days, these gnats are just no-see-ums I grow used to swatting aside.

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However…

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Just when I’ve completed decades of slow-growing acceptance of this daily stew, somebody finds a new way to throw me off course.

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At the convenience store gas pump I meditatively insert my credit card and await the sucking sound of money removal. I’m used to that. But suddenly a hyper-happy voice emanates from the instruction screen, demanding that I consider the immediate purchase of candy and sugared fizz drinks and two-for-one-today-only cup holders.

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The jolly words equate with BREAKING NEWS announcements and overly medicated dancers holding pizza parlor posters beside the road. They seem to belong to a union of speed bump denizens. They include large lighted billboards with messages that disappear faster than I can read them.

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I thought that not listening to commercial radio stations while driving would bring calm and peace to a troubled mind. But even my beloved Public Radio station self-promotes with a rapid-fire frequency similar to its competitors’ ads. Preaching to the choir. Jolly yelling.

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Geez.

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This must be grumpy-time on an otherwise lovely morning.

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When I was a child, door-to-door salespeople would knock at Mother’s door to hawk their wares. I’ve seen foot-on-the-threshold ploys up close. I recognize you had better-pay-close-attention moves of every kind.

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Some folks enjoy this form of attention and distraction. For some reason I prefer to be gently wooed by sales forces too big to be ignored.

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Don’t yell. Don’t call me eight times a day with UNAVAILABLE caller ID signals. Don’t send endless streams of emails, do not add incessant pop-ups to my screens, don’t freeze my computer long enough to hustle me.

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Being a contrarian, I will boycott each and every company that forcefully hazes me. I will give due respect to any entity that approaches me in a non-threatening manner and appears to listen to my reply. I prefer discourse and exchange. I respond negatively to aggressive pitches. I prefer polite humans to cheerful robots.

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I’m that village elder who likes to spend money pleasurably. I am not that fragile dude who looks like a pushover for an overpriced purchase.

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I am every merchant’s dream customer if treated with respect

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© 2026 A.D. by Jim Reed

Life, actually…

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 GETTING AROUND TO READING A BOOK

 “I don’t read.”

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My brother Ronny states this most emphatically. He explains after noting the alarm on my face:  “I don’t read books. It’s boring. I fall asleep.” 

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Ronny does read. He admits that he reads trade publications, the Internet, road signs, instructions, legal notices, prescription labels, spread sheets, etc.—but to him, that doesn’t count as reading.

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Ronny’s not alone…I hear this statement in one form or another each and every week.